5 Psychology-Backed Signs She Is Attracted To You!

 

Science-backed signs she is attracted to you: so, you think she might like you, but you're not sure. She might be just being nice. She might be just being friendly, but you don't know. 

Is something more going on? When I was younger, I was so scared of rejection that I would never show anyone how I truly felt. 

I would even friend-zone guys that I was interested in just so they don't have a chance to reject me. But if you paid close attention, there would be signs. 

And I'm sure I wasn't the only girl in the world who was doing this. A lot of women are terrified of rejection, and because of social conditioning, they don't want to show interest. 

They don't want to make the first move. In this blog post so today, we're talking about five subtle research-backed signs she is attracted to you that a woman is attracted to you. And some of these are so unconscious that she doesn't even realize that she's doing them. 

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5 Signs she is attracted to you!

Number one, attention investment. 

When a woman likes you, she makes micro investments of attention, asking small personal questions, remembering details, and laughing at your average jokes. 

Studies on social bonding show that we invest attention in people that we secretly value. But to have a contrast, if she's distant or disengaged, there's probably no attraction there. 

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Number two, she matches your communication rhythm. 

Not just mirroring your gestures, which is also a thing she does when she's attracted to you, but also syncing to your communication patterns, certain words you use, texting style, or, you know, even response time. 

For example, if she generally texts, let's say, really short phrases, right, through text, and you text long paragraphs, and then she starts texting long paragraphs, that's a subtle indicator that she's attracted to you or she's interested. 

So, something you might want to try is, you know, seeing what her texting pattern is. Maybe she writes long paragraphs. Start texting like short paragraphs with emojis. 

If she starts mimicking that, you know, it's a sign that she's trying to create rapport or bonding on an unconscious level, and it's a clear sign that she's interested. 

Number three is that she creates micro excuses to interact. 

She's always finding small, non-obvious reasons to reach out, like, you know, asking a quick question, sending you a meme, or, you know, asking you to help her with something that she could very well do by herself. 

Just to give you an example from my personal life, when I was in university, I had a crush on this guy, and I told him, like, "Hey, can you come to my room? There's a spider there. 

Like, can you get rid of it?" And he was so offended because he said, "Oh, I'm not a zookeeper." And I was like, "Oh my gosh." Like that was my way of, you know, trying to initiate a conversation to meet up, you know. And I asked him months later. 

I was like, "Did you realize I was actually interested in you?" He was like, "Oh, no. I had no idea. I was actually really upset that you would ask me for something like that." 

And he was interested, but he was so clueless. So, if a girl asks you, can you come get rid of that spider in my room? Take it as a sign that she's interested. 

Number four, her language becomes more future-oriented around you. 

So, we should sleep in next time, or you know, mention that you're going to do something in the future, or future plans involving the two of you. 

Research shows that inclusive and future language strongly correlates with relational intent. And it makes sense because if someone is attracted to you, they want to see a future with you. 

So they're like, "Oh, we should watch this movie," or, you know, "We should go there, like, oh, in the next few months, like, it would be nice to X."  

Number five, and this is the most obvious sign.

I would say, is showing nurturing or wifey behavior. So this might look like making sure you're wearing a scarf if it's cold, cooking something for you, and making sure you've eaten. 

I have a friend who, every time she has a crush, bakes cookies for them. 

That nurturing side gets out of her. And this is just a subconscious way to sort of signal mate value and just that you're wifey material. 

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So these were the five signs she is attracted to you, and they don't always apply, right? Someone could genuinely have a spider in their room, but most of the time, if you know a woman does most of these signs, it is quite a clear indicator that she's interested. All right, guys. Lots of love. Bye.