17 Things Women Don’t Know About Men (But Should)

A man will treat you according to the value he sees in you, meaning if he believes you're the most wonderful woman he's ever met. 

You'll see his dedication and devotion to you, but if he seems confused and not consistent.

It's because his intentions with you aren't clear to himself. 

Because someone who believes they found a diamond doesn't treat the diamond like a regular stone.

But remember that this has nothing to do with your worth, okay?

 It has everything to do with the way he perceives you, and that is the harsh truth. 

Things Women Don’t Know About Men (But Should)

In this blog post, I'm going to discuss 13 harsh truths about men that women often learn too late. The things women don't know about men

Understanding these realities can save you from a lot of disappointment, confusion, and heartbreak. 

If you're tired of experiencing the same issues in relationships, then you need to hear this.

 13 Things women don't know about men:

 

Lesser-known facts about men. By knowing some of these surprising truths.

You can gain a better insight into the opposite sex. And better understand and also broach man-thinking topics like the need to…

Why do they do the things they do?

Whether you're looking to better understand your partner or simply want to satisfy your sexual desires.

These facts are sure to surprise you if you are excited.

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#1: He won't love you unconditionally. 

Ladies, never expect unconditional love from a man, okay? 

This is something that ends up causing a lot of suffering in many women. 

If you think that someone would love you no matter what, 

No matter if you fail to meet their needs, neglect their feelings, or disregard them.

-: The balance of give and take in the relationship.

 You will be setting yourself up for disappointment. 

Unconditional love is for your children. 

You know your parent, it's your dog, but romantic relationships are built on mutual benefits. 

Whether emotional, physical, or social. 

By the way, this applies to women as well, okay? 

I remember my grandmother told me once the same advice she said, "Never expect a woman to love you unconditionally." 

And I was like, "What do you mean? I don't understand." 

And she said, "If tomorrow you're thrown in prison for life, okay.

 Whether innocent or guilty. 

No woman will put up with that. 

Only your mother and I will be there every week to see you." 

And I laugh now because old people always come up with the most extreme scenarios to prove a point.

But there's a lot of truth in what she said, so always remember that principle. 

#2. Men feel weird.

When you talk to your friends about them.

When men pretend they don't care what you think or say about them to your friends.

They're actually just trying to save themselves from feeling embarrassed.

In reality, men do care what you think about them, and they get very anxious...

When they hear you talking to your friends about them.

Even if it's all positive, and if you're in a relationship with him, 

The idea of you sharing intimate details about your relationship with other people makes him feel very uneasy. 

So if you want to keep your man happy, it's best to avoid talking about him to your friends, at least not in a negative light.

#3: Insecure men will destroy you.

An insecure man will try to destroy the things he loves about you.

Why, you may ask?

Because he knows that other men are attracted to the same qualities that he noticed in you.

So if you're playful, charismatic, and have a great circle of friends, many times he will isolate you and slowly dim your light.

And once you become codependent and boring,

He will say that he lost attraction for you without even understanding that he was the one who caused it.

-: So always remember this:

Whoever you were when he first met you,

That's what attracted him to you, so don't let anyone mold you into what they believe is best for you. 

#4: His ways of showing love are different from yours.

Did you know that men and women actually show their love in different ways? 

It's true, and this often leads to misunderstandings between couples.

Women tend to express their love through words of affirmation.

Quality time, on the other hand, according to researchers, tends to be expressed their love through acts of service. 

Physical touch and getting gifts, so if your man isn't exactly the romantic type, don't take it personally; it's just the way he shows his love.

#5: Transformation after wealth.

In their 20s or early 30s, a lot of guys settle down with a woman because she's the best option that they can find at that moment.

They find someone who treats them well and who they think will be a good wife.

So they marry her, but once a man starts making some serious money, okay.

Which, for the average guy, usually happens around their 40s; things often change big time. 

Suddenly, he starts getting attention from women who never noticed him before, and now curiosity starts kicking in. 

Plus, a midlife crisis thinking that he doesn't want to miss out, so the woman that they married. 

When they were young, what seemed like the best that they could do at that time may not fit into the new picture of success. 

6: Will lie about cheating. 

You can find a video of your partner cheating on you, okay? 

You can walk into your house and catch him on your bed with another woman. 

He will say that she drugged him, that he was unconscious, and that he doesn't even remember how he got there. 

I mean, I've seen it all. 

If you think that most men will just admit Hey, listen, I messed up, okay? 

I cheated. 

I take full responsibility for my actions, and I will work on myself to stop this from happening again. 

Ladies, that barely happens, and don't get me wrong, okay? 

Those cases do exist. 

I've witnessed some guys, really, you know, make a change in their lives and work it out with their spouse, but that's one in a million. 

Most men would rather face death than admit they betrayed you.

7: You will often find that men bottle up their emotions.

Refrain from sharing how they are really feeling, even with the people closest to them. 

This is because they are afraid of that. If they express their true feelings, they will be seen as weak or vulnerable.

If you want to get your man to open up to you, it is better to create a safe and non-judgmental environment where he feels comfortable expressing himself.

Men have a hard time expressing their feelings in relation to the previous point because men are so afraid of rejection that they often have a hard time expressing their feelings.

8: Men do not always mean what they say.

This is a hard pill for many women to swallow, but it is true: men do not always say what they mean, and they do not always mean what they say. 

Now, this does not mean that men are liars; 

It just means that sometimes men say things without really thinking about them first, especially.

 When they are angry or upset.

For example, a man might say, I hate you, during an argument, but he doesn't actually mean it; 

He's just saying it in the heat of the moment, so don't take everything your man says at face value; try to read between the lines and understand his true meaning.

9: The things you think are hidden, of course.

This does not mean that men are always pointing out your flaws or making you feel bad about yourself.

It just means that they are aware of them as much as you are.

Men notice your flaws as much as you do, if you think men do not see your flaws. 

Men are actually very observant, and they notice everything, even.

10: He doesn't care about you being nice. 

If you meet a man who's truly in love with his partner, you know what you will never hear him say?

 "Oh, I love her because she's the nicest woman I've ever met." 

You know when you actually hear those words?

 When somebody leaves you. 

"Ah, man, I broke her heart, but she was so nice to me." 

You see, when men are looking for what they want in a woman, being nice isn't usually top of the list. 

It's like, sure, it's great to have someone polite and all, but that's just expected, okay? 

They take it as a given. 

What really matters to them are things like intelligence, a good sense of humor, having shared interests, and, of course, physical attraction and an emotional connection. 

 

11: A great guy doesn't equal a great husband. 

Some men are wonderful individuals, okay? 

Everyone loves hanging out with them, their friends think that they're the best, and their family adores them. 

But when it comes to being a great husband, it's a whole different ball game. 

Being a great husband isn't.

Just about being a great friend or, you know, fun to be around. 

It involves qualities like communication skills, the ability to compromise.

And a commitment to supporting and nurturing their relationship in various ways. 

That goes beyond surface-level interactions, which reminds me of someone in my family. 

I'm not going to say her name, but she always says something about her ex-husband, 

He's the most wonderful guy that you will ever meet; just make sure that you don't marry him.

12. Has no direction in life. 

No woman will ever be good enough for a man who doesn't know what he wants. 

If a man lacks purpose, if he's not driven by his work, his goals, and his dreams.

If he's not passionate about the type of man that he wants to become, then how can you expect him to be passionate about you? 

If a man is constructing his life as a garden and he knows everything that he wants in it, 

Then the moment he sees a flower, he will appreciate it. 

But if he doesn't know what he's building for himself, 

Then he will only seek you for relaxation and not inspiration. 

13. Watch out for the Chasers. 

Many men don't want a relationship, ladies; they want the chase and the conquest. 

Understand that a secure man will never chase; he'll express that he's interested in you, okay? 

But if you start playing hard to get or any manipulative games, he will direct his attention somewhere else. 

A man who chases you intensely is someone who likes the feeling of pursuing what's out of his reach.

So once he has you, a few months or a few years may pass, but eventually, in most cases, he'll have the drive to chase someone else again. 

14. Will judge your body count. 

Most people, both men and women, say that they want to know everything about your past, okay?

Including how many sexual encounters you've had. 

However, once you disclose all the details, it usually causes a lot of friction in the relationship, and ladies, 

I'm all about honesty. Okay? 

But you don't have to reveal every explicit detail, like every guy that you kissed and who was the best kisser. 

And I know that some of you do this to poke a man's ego, you know, to make him jealous. 

And even though you might get his attention in the moment, in the long run, 

It will only lead to toxicity and unhealthy dynamics in the relationship. 

15: Will replace you instantly as a man. 

I've experienced being replaced in the past, okay? 

Women who walked away and quickly moved on to another guy usually, though, when it comes to women, this process is gradual, okay? 

It often takes a few months or even years for the relationship issues to emerge. 

It's like there's a slow buildup of tension and dissatisfaction that eventually leads to a breaking point. 

However, it's usually different in male behavior. 

For many guys, it can happen in a flash, okay? 

They'll meet someone new one night, feel completely infatuated, and the next day, they're out the door.

And you have no idea what happened or how it happened because you never saw any signs.

16: He's been brainwashed by X-rated content. 

Many men develop unrealistic expectations about their partners due to exposure to X-rated content from an early age. 

Imagine teenage boys already consuming these things, and this is usually. 

Their first experience in sexual education was outside what they learn from family or school. 

There's a lot of research indicating that frequent consumption of such content can lead to dissatisfaction in relationships, 

as men may compare their partners to unrealistic standards for trade online, and finally,  

17. They value freedom. 

Men value their freedom above everything else; we place a high value on our independence and personal space.

 

A man feels his power is being taken away if a woman forces him to commit or show love to her. 

He needs to do it on his own.

 

He needs to feel that he can leave in order to stay, and let me give you an analogy so you understand better. 

He needs to walk into a movie theater and see the exit sign behind him so he can leave if he wants to. 

But he decides to stay because the movie is so captivating and worth watching that he wants to experience it until the end. 

All right, ladies, those are the.

17: Things Women Don’t Know About Men. 

For those of you who are more experienced.

Let the younger women know in the comments which ones you've experienced yourself, so they can see the evidence and learn from you as well. 

I'm glad that you chose me to learn about self-love, dating, and relationship dynamics because. 

Like I always say, for your relationships to change, you need to change. 

Have a beautiful day.

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